Individual therapy and parent consultation

Therapy that makes room for insight, practical skills, and self-compassion

We can look at where patterns began, how they affect your life today, and what you would like to do differently—while recognizing that not everything needs to be treated as something wrong with you.

I offer individual therapy for adults, teenagers, and children generally age 10 and older. Younger children may occasionally be considered after an initial consultation. I also offer parent consultation focused on behavior management, emotional regulation, routines, and family support.

Relationship concerns, not couples counselingI work with individuals on communication, boundaries, family dynamics, sexuality, and decisions about relationships. I do not provide couples counseling.
Adult therapy

Support when you feel overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from your own intentions

Many adults come to therapy knowing what they believe they “should” be doing. The difficulty is turning that knowledge into action while managing work, relationships, responsibilities, emotions, and the pressure to keep up.

You may be:

  • Struggling to begin or complete tasks
  • Feeling anxious, panicked, or unable to turn off your thoughts
  • Experiencing low motivation, sadness, or disconnection
  • Recovering from stress or burnout
  • Navigating grief, career changes, or relationship changes
  • Questioning your identity or sexuality
  • Feeling ashamed of how difficult ordinary responsibilities have become
  • Trying to communicate more effectively at work or at home
  • Wondering whether ADHD contributes to what you experience

You do not have to arrive with a clear diagnosis or treatment plan. We can begin with what is most difficult now and build a clearer understanding together.

Common reasons families reach out
  • Big emotions, anger, or frequent outbursts
  • Anxiety, fears, panic, or sleep difficulty
  • Depression, sadness, or loss of interest
  • School stress, avoidance, or follow-through problems
  • ADHD and executive-functioning challenges
  • Low confidence or negative self-talk
  • Family, friendship, or identity concerns
  • Grief, adjustment, and major changes
Children and teens

Helping young people understand big feelings without being defined by them

Children and teenagers do not always have the language to explain why they feel anxious, sad, angry, overwhelmed, or shut down. Their distress may appear as avoidance, emotional outbursts, school difficulties, irritability, conflict, loss of motivation, or changes in confidence and behavior.

My goal is to understand what a behavior may be communicating while also helping the young person develop emotional awareness, accountability, coping skills, communication, and confidence.

Sessions are adapted to age and preference. Conversation may be combined with structured activities, skills practice, visual tools, or play-based observation when clinically useful.

Parent involvement

Children need privacy—and parents need useful guidance.

The right balance depends on the child’s age, preferences, treatment goals, safety, and the kind of service being provided.

When the child is the therapy client

I generally give the child a meaningful voice in deciding whether a session will be individual or include a parent or caregiver. Appropriate privacy can help therapy feel like a space that belongs to the child rather than another place where adults discuss what they are doing wrong.

Periodic caregiver check-ins, parent education, and occasional joint sessions can help changes continue outside the therapy room.

Parent consultation and behavior support

Parent consultation may be useful when emotional reactions, ADHD symptoms, routines, school concerns, or behavior create recurring conflict at home.

Behavior-management sessions are often joint sessions with the child and parent. Parent-only appointments may also be used when practical and clinically appropriate.

Consultation may focus on

  • Understanding what may be driving a behavior
  • Setting clear, realistic expectations
  • Developing predictable routines
  • Supporting emotional regulation and co-regulation
  • Reinforcing desired behaviors
  • Reducing power struggles
  • Supporting independence without expecting unlearned skills
  • Responding with both empathy and accountability
ADHD and executive functioning

Knowing what to do and being able to do it are not the same thing.

ADHD may affect the ability to start, sequence, remember, prioritize, estimate time, shift attention, regulate emotions, and persist when a task is frustrating or unrewarding.

Therapy may involve

  • Understanding your individual ADHD patterns
  • Breaking large or unclear tasks into manageable steps
  • Developing external reminders and support systems
  • Creating routines that require less working memory
  • Improving time awareness
  • Addressing avoidance and task paralysis
  • Managing strong emotional reactions
  • Communicating needs at school, work, or home
  • Challenging shame-based beliefs
  • Practicing self-advocacy

The goal is not a perfect system. It is to find approaches that are sustainable enough to improve everyday functioning.

Possible areas of work

  • Recognizing anxious thought patterns
  • Responding differently to avoidance and uncertainty
  • Managing panic symptoms
  • Increasing emotional awareness
  • Reconnecting with routines and meaningful activities
  • Reducing harsh self-criticism
  • Understanding periods of low motivation or mood
  • Improving communication and connection
Anxiety and depression

Support can be structured, exploratory, or a combination of both.

Anxiety and depression may occur on their own or alongside ADHD, stress, trauma, grief, identity concerns, and relationship difficulties.

Some clients want concrete skills and exercises. Others need time to process experiences, relationships, losses, and internal conflicts. Many benefit from both.

LGBTQ+ affirming therapy

Your identity can be part of therapy without becoming the only thing therapy is about.

As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I am honored to work with LGBTQ+ clients.

Therapy may include concerns directly related to sexuality or gender, but it does not have to. LGBTQ+ clients also seek therapy for ADHD, anxiety, depression, work, grief, parenting, relationships, burnout, family dynamics, and all of the other concerns that bring people to counseling.

You should not have to educate your therapist about the basic legitimacy of your identity before you can begin discussing the rest of your life.

Clinical approach

Different tools, used in plain language and adapted to you

The name of a therapy model matters less than whether it helps you understand yourself, function more effectively, and move toward the life and relationships you want.

Approaches I draw from

CBTACTDBT-informed skillsMindfulnessTrauma-informed careStrengths-based workIFS-informed techniquesExecutive-functioning strategies

Between-session exercises are invitations, not tests.

I sometimes offer a worksheet, reflection prompt, coping skill, or small experiment to continue the work between sessions. These are always collaborative and optional.

Not having the time, energy, or capacity to complete something is not a failure. It may help us understand what support is missing, whether the task was realistic, or whether we need a different approach.

Take the next step

You do not have to decide on a treatment approach before reaching out.

Begin with what is difficult now. We can decide together what kind of support is likely to be useful.